You are not alone.There are different books and article written to show people how to discover themselves and what they want in live.Each recommending different ways it could be achieved.
I believe,the best path to discovering yourself and what you want out of life is in these 5 steps.They are as follow:
- Have faith in God
- Ask Him for help constantly through prayers
- Read the Bible daily to seek and discover
- Apply what you read
- Become what God says you are